EMPATHICS vs. EMPTY HOLES
I was talking last night to a friend of mine about people who constantly utilize Empathic Givers to feel better about themselves, more energetic, spiritually enlightened and even as a way to boost their careers and “borrow” creative ideas from an Empathic/Creative. If it seems unfair for people to use empathic and giving people to fill themselves, let me remind you that empathic humans only give away their power if they desire to do so. They have a choice to say no. And therein, lies the age old problem of where to draw boundaries with humans of hollow needs. Where does an empathic person draw the line and tell the user . . . “No More! Stop!”
In my mind there are three kinds of people on the receiving end of life-Needy People, Greedy People and Seedy People.
Needy People are those whose childhoods had their life forces traumatized somewhere along the way, sending them into a spiral of indecision and dread. They’re afraid to make decisions and need the constant assurance of people who’ve been more right than wrong in their lives. Needy humans turn to empathic or sensitive humans who have been tested and proven to be helpful in finding solutions to problems. A baby is an early example of a needy human being. Their caretakers . . . very quickly become empathic to a baby’s needs, interpreting their various cries of pain or hunger and their simplistic need for human comfort. I find that when neediness extends beyond being a helpless child and into adulthood, we’ll find our needy humans.
Greedy People are calculating and self-centered. They never have enough assurances to enable them to feel satiated. An empathic psychic or a good friend can never fill a greedy person up. Their needs are like trying to fill a bottomless pit. The more time and energy you pour into the greedy human, the more they strive for greater and greater satiation. Constant assurance and validation seems to be their cry in the night, turning their lives into an overflow of frightened, hungry greed. They fill their empty holes with a hunger so huge, they never stop to consider the energy they’re depleting in their quest to make themselves feel better.
Seedy People are both needy and greedy, and have an air of dishonesty about their energies. They seem to need to be dishonest in order to fill their empty holes of need and greed. They’re not as good at camouflaging their lust for energy, and are more visible than the needy and greedy. Seedy people include the con artist and the petty thief. They’re always on the edge of doing more evil, but not quite brave enough to embrace total sin. Sometimes they’re very intelligent and cunning, and they’re good liars. They need the energies of a giving, empathic human to accomplish their seedy mission of conning and thievery of their fellow man. Beware of the seedy people. They can bring a giving, empathic human down to a low energy level where it’s really hard to recover from seedy/slippery slopes of dishonesty. Walk away from the seedy human if you recognize their energy fields.